So, below is my new weekly schedule. It sucks. Essentially, I took up a part time job at the University of Phoenix to help us get through the summer. I dont know if I can keep that pace very long, but the goal is to do it until the semester ends in a couple months. Then, during summer, I can drop the ASU responsibilities (though I'll still have to do Univ. of PX and my dissertation).
As I take up the new job, Jen's schedule gets equally hectic as she takes up full time Abby duty. I'll watch her for a dozen hours a week, but Jen's will have her the rest of the time.