Sunday, August 22, 2010

18 Days Until Daddy

What a day. I don't even know where to begin. You need to read the last paragraph of yesterday's blog before you read this because I won't bore you with the same story! Needless to say I got bit by a cat last night! When I woke up this morning I could not use my left arm. I couldn't go up and down, side to side, etc. It did not look bad--not even that bruised, but it was swollen and very painful. There were some other issues that complicated my problem and so I really needed help. I called Natalie and it was Natalie to the rescue! I could not lift my arm so I could not do my hair. So she did Abby's and my hair this morning and then she barely made it to her ward to play the organ! She is the best. I also got a blessing from members of our bishopric on their way to meetings. My visiting teacher also went and retrieved my antibiotics from a pharmacy and I took them before choir. They cost a fortune--yikes. Not a good month for a large extra bill. But all of this helped me get to choir rehearsal and we had an excellent rehearsal. My ward choir is unbelievable and we sing for the last time together next week. We are expecting 50 people! I also sang in a musical number with amazing women.

I won't go into details but it was a rough day and I am so thankful for my friends. I came back after church and laid down for a little while and Abby played with friends. I truly am blessed. Maybe that is why it is hard to leave Tempe. Heavenly Father has blessed me abundantly and I do know that He will continually bless me in Bakersfield also.

One funny story--this morning I soaked my arm in some epson salt and hot water in a large bowl. I thought Abby would play in it so I had Natalie move it. She put it on top of the freezer and told me not to open the freezer. I forgot when I got home and opened the freezer to get some ice and barely missed the waterfall that ensued. The floor was covered and I ended up mopping my floor unexpectedly.

This morning Abby looked so cute and we took some pictures of her. Sorry they are the only pictures from today--but they are pretty cute! We love you so much Daddy and wish you were here.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

19 Days Until Daddy

If I thought yesterday had some adventures it was nothing compared to today! This morning we left early with our friends Jenny and Carric to go to the Desert Botanical Gardens. I got tickets at the Tempe Library so we could all get in free. Before we could even get going something was leaking from Abby's car seat--yuck! There were some grapes (I think) that had fallen down into the car seat and it was gross. I got it all cleaned up and we were ready to go. (We usually have a very clean car seat by the way!). The Botanical Garden was fun and very hot. We especially enjoyed the butterflies.
The inside of a cactus--not what I expected!
Abby saw lots of geckos today and then she found one in the gift store. Carric ended up buying it for her and she named it Carric. Thanks Carric!
Next we ran errands and came back for an early nap because 5 women were coming over to run through our musical number for tomorrow's Sacrament meeting. Below you see Amelia, Jen, Ariana, Chelsi, Abby and Jenny. There will be one more but she was camping. I love singing with these incredible women.
After we ran through the song Abby and I went over to see Dr. David Schildkret (one of my professors from ASU) and his wife Sue. Dr. Schildkret has been gone for a while and we wanted to make sure we saw him before we move. We had an absolutely wonderful visit.
Then the adventures began. . . and as you can see below Abby found the pool outside and Sue helped her swim! I did not bring her suit, so she had fun in her diaper! Abby then took off her diaper and ran around naked and Dr. Schildkret let Abby come inside for a minute. She of course decided to relieve her bladder a little bit on their carpet! When we finally got her out of the water and I put her diaper on, she really started to freak out. I noticed a rash starting and she was really unhappy. So we put her in their bath tub to help her. As I was leaning over the bath tub and trying to get my crying Abby to sit and soak I felt a sharp pain in my left arm. I looked over and saw a cat biting into my arm and then it let go and hissed and showed me its teeth. It proceeded to scratch my arm and then bit down again, this time into the muscle below my elbow. I think he was trying to protect Abby and thought I was doing something to hurt her. Fortunately Sue then got him out of the room but I was just shocked. I ended up bleeding from about 6 or 7 places, but I was really concerned about Abby. So I held toilet paper on the wounds and tried to help Abby feel better. She finally calmed down and then I realized I was out of diapers. We had used up the ones I brought and I wasn't going to put back on the one that bothered her. So they gave us an old towel and I took her out to the car naked! She ended up running (naked) across their driveway and into the neighbors yard with me chasing behind--she is very fast! We all had a great laugh. So since my peroxide and everything to take care of the cat marks is packed I ran over to the Taysom family to clean things up. I think I might have some cool bruises. What a crazy day!

Bakersfield Motel



The motel I'm staying in at Bakersfield is dirt cheap. It only costs $31/night and that includes cable TV, internet, microwave, refrigerator, and free breakfast. Too good to be true? Well, there are some downsides. The room has a serious fly infestation and these buggers are fast. I can hardly kill them, and certainly not faster than they replenish themselves. I am not sure where they are coming from, since I keep the door closed, but may from the bathroom vent or AC unit. The AC works--that is nice, but the room stinks to high heaven so I stuck a air freshener on it to mask the odor. The fridge and microwave work fine, but the free breakfast consists of day old donuts that are a bit stiff and a nasty tang orange juice that I can't stomach. There is a waffle iron, so that works out fine, but waffles get old after a few days. I really can't wait until we close on the house and I can move out of this motel and into the new home.

I've had meetings at the college all this past week. The folks there seem nice. I'm sure things will work out well. The focus on student learning is a little more intense than I am accustomed. When teaching at the university level I heard, more than once, "get your research done and try to help the students if you have time" or "cut into the teaching prep to finish your research." That is not how things work here. The college reminds me much more of when I taught eight grade. It is all about student learning, which is just fine with me. Still, I do plan to do some research. It looks like Fridays are mostly free, so I'll do my scholarly writing then. In the meantime, I must convince those who think (and one person already asserted this opinion directly to me) that folks with a PhD cannot relate or teach junior college kids. The fact is, I think, that folks with a PhD know their stuff so much better that we can better reach the students. I guess we'll find out soon enough.

Friday, August 20, 2010

20 Days Until Daddy

Today was full of fun adventures and funny stories. This morning I took a woman in our ward to apply for some jobs and Abby played with Natalie. I think they spent a majority of the time dancing! Before I left Abby looked so cute so I just took a picture. Isn't she beautiful?
For lunch I made fruit juice drinks and as you can see Abby had to eat all of her pasta and broccoli before getting it. She ate--it worked!
Around 5:30 p.m. Abby and I decided we needed an adventure so we walked up to ASU to get some music that someone left for me outside of my office. While there she seemed particularly quiet in her stroller while I spoke with a friend. When I went around to the front she had managed to get my lip gloss out of the top part of the stroller and had fun putting it on!
As we left my old office I tried to take a picture of where my office was. It was a bit sunny as you can see. My office is just behind us.
On our way to and from ASU we pass over the train tracks and Abby gets very excited. I thought I would take a picture for her to see later.
As I said, Abby was dancing with Natalie and she showed me a bit when I got home. Sorry it's not longer. She doesn't do it like she can when I turn on the camera!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

21 Days Until Daddy

A couple weeks ago Matt taught some Cub Scouts about how the Native Americans lived. Tonight they dropped off a few cookies and a nice thank you note. Here it is so that Matt can see it.
We enjoyed playing with Abby's playgroup at the pool today. Natalie wanted to go swimming too (it is quite hot here) so we asked her to come with us. Here is a picture of part of our playgroup.
On the way to the pool I passed a license plate that I simply had to get out and take a picture of. This is one of Abby's many nicknames!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

22 Days Until Daddy

Our morning began with a long walk for exercise. I exercise every morning, but Abby sometimes gets bored, so I thought a good walk would make her happy. I put her in the stroller and we ended up walking quite a ways. We stopped and bought Abby 3 white powdered donuts from Dunkin' Donuts. She thought that was amazing.
On our return walk we spent some time at her favorite spot--the dog park not far from our house.
My friend Janine took a day off today and called to see if Abby could come and play with her kids Tray and Ivy. Abby loves to play with them and had so much fun as you can clearly see.
While Abby played I worked on an article I am trying to get published and the time went so quickly. I thought I would get more done, but I did make some really necessary edits on what I had already written. Tonight we had an excellent dinner of salmon with Janine, Tray and Ivy and I brought some brownies and ice cream. Sorry Daddy!
We will make some for you in 22 days if you want!
One funny story for the day. . . . Before I picked up Abby I went with one of my favorite piano students, to the teacher she is going to take lessons from when I leave. When I came in and Hannah told him my name he thought I was one of her teen-age friends. Hannah is 16! He thought I was sixteen! Crazy! He could not believe I have a 2 year old daughter and a doctorate degree! It made me feel really good and just made us all laugh!

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

23 Days Until Daddy

It's raining! Abby and I went outside to get the mail (yes, Matt, I went out to get the mail!) and it was just starting to rain. We felt the rain and looked at the clouds. We will get the mail later! We can hear thunder and Abby says, "Storm, scare me."
Tonight we watched the movie "Babe" which we borrowed from friends. In order to watch it we had to run to Target and get a cable because Matt took the cord with him. Target was crawling with college students and their parents. It's hard to believe school starts up on Thursday. No more somewhat quiet Tempe--the college students are back!

This morning I worked with a friend to try and help him figure out why he is experiencing pain while he is singing. He has a beautiful voice and I want to help him figure it out. Since I needed to pay close attention Natalie came over to play with Abby and we all had a great morning. Here are some fun video clips! Grandma Karen, the piggy noise is for you! She is better at counting than this, but I am struggling to get her on video.
She can do it by herself--really!

Monday, August 16, 2010

24 Days Until Daddy

Another fun day for Jen and Abby! We did our "school time" at the Tempe Library today and so we did lots of puzzles, read books, and played with other kids. Her puzzle skills are improving greatly!
Here Abby said she was making me lunch in the kitchen at the library!
Matt always says Abby looks so pretty when she sleeps, so I had to include a picture of her today during her nap.
Tonight we ventured over to our friends Chris and Elise. Abby loves them and especially loves to play with their dog, Marcus. Here is a picture of them and a video of Abby playing with Marcus.
Good luck at your first day of meetings in Bakersfield Daddy!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

25 Days Until Daddy

Happy Sunday! We love Sunday's because we get to go to Church and learn about Jesus and see all of our friends. Since Matt is gone Abby needed to come to choir with me and a really sweet girl volunteered to watch her. I could tell that Abby realizes that things aren't normal--such as Matt being gone by the way she reacted. She cried and cried and she is always so good with anyone that wants to play with her. I also think she was tired and so she fell asleep for a little while in her arms. I think next week she is going to play with another couple and they will bring her to Church. That will make her very happy--especially because she can play with their dog Marcus! Here is a picture of our Tempe Ward Building with our friends Carric and Jenny in front.
I had the opportunity today to play a duet with my friend Carly Aylworth. She played "A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief" on the oboe and I played the piano. How blessed I am to make music with Carly! I also was asked to play the part of Mary Magdalene in Primary. I pretended to be her and told the kids about my experience seeing Jesus at the garden tomb. It actually ended up being a really moving experience as I contemplated just what she saw and what a miracle it was. One little girl just sat there starring at me with her mouth open. I love kids!

My friend Natalie sewed me a beautiful circle skirt and gave me a shirt to go with it. Everyone at Church absolutely loved it and I received many compliments. The picture doesn't really show it since I had to set the timer and take the picture. But you get the idea!
Our friends have been so amazing and supportive. Tonight we went to our friends Ben, Stacy, Lucy and Alice for dinner and fun. Abby loves to run and play and their house is the perfect place to do that. We really enjoyed our time with them.

Beck on President Coolidge

So I was invited to watch the Glenn Beck show today. It was the episode on Coolidge that I already mentioned, but now I have a much more complete picture of the episode. Its primary function was to argue that Coolidge was a godsend and solved the terrible situation that Wilson created. He did so by using conservative policies of lowering taxes for the wealthy and minimizing government. Beck says that during Coolidge's administration there were three times as many cars in the USA and per capital wealth increased. “People made more money” and “real income went up.” There was little inflation and “it was a golden time.” Electricity lit up homes and appliances came into the home. Beck said this led to “euphoria” and leisure time. To help make this argument Beck brought in two “historians”: Amity Shlaes and David Pietrusza.

Where do I begin? First, let me say that some of this is correct. I admit it. Good work. Coolidge’s minimalist government program did increase production and growing supply lowered prices of goods so that for the first time in US history the middling classes could afford to buy all sorts of “stuff.”

However, Beck and his two buddies who are parading as historians conveniently overlook the advances during Wilson’s administration and thrust all positive economic gains onto Coolidge. They seem to forget that the unionization that occurred under Wilson’s administration created, for the first time, a working class that was finally paid enough to buy “stuff,” and this new consumerism is what drove the economic boom of the 1920s. During Wilson’s administration the government closely managed production and streamlined production to mobilize the economy for World War I. Wilson established unprecedented partnerships between the government, private industry, and labor groups to maximize communication and production. He suspended anti-trust lawsuits and minimized labor protests. He guaranteed profits to businesses but also base wages to workers. This sort of management really focused all the energies of the American economy for the war. After the war all bets were off, wages dropped, prices rose, and conflict between labor and business resumed. This all occurred at the close of Wilson’s presidency, at which point he was incapacitated by a stroke and unable to respond. It is hard to blame him for the economic recession that ensued, given his incapacitated status. We can never know what would have happened if he had his facilities, but what we do know is his efforts during the war created unprecedented economic stability and social equality.

So the economic boom of the 1920s can be traced to the growth of a consumer class (thank you Wilson) and the consequent growth of production (thank you Wilson and Coolidge). Of course, the expansion of credit during those years also led a major problem—the Great Depression (you can blame Harding, Coolidge, and Hoover). Certainly we should not overlook Coolidge, but let’s not go crediting him with all the good Wilson did or omit the economic instability that his policies set in motion. This is yet another example of why you should not get your history lessons from political talk shows, and definitely not from Glenn Beck.

On a related note, I take offense at the title of “historian” that Beck gave to his two guests. Amity Shlaes is a journalist. She only has a bachelor’s degree and I believe it is in English. It is possible that she has never taken a history class beyond the required survey class as a freshman in college. She is not a historian. David Pietrusza has both a BA and a masters degree in history, which makes him qualified to teach high school but still not a historian. Both have published several books but none by a scholarly press (a common standard of quality among true historians). Instead, they are published privately or perhaps by conservative think tanks who are more interested in advocating a political message be thrust on the past than a genuine study of the past. These two are not historians!

Misrepresenting the Facts, Again.

So I mentioned in a previous post that I am briefly staying with my parents and that while I appreciate the room the bombardment of Fox News’ revisionist history is torture. Let me first state that I’m not a Democrat or Republican; I’m an independent and I vote for both sides depending on the issue. Nevertheless, the utterly false refashioning of history by conservatives drives me crazy, not because of my political affiliation, but because of my profession (recalling I am a history professor). Let me share the latest example.

This morning I was subjected to a conveniently incomplete paraphrasing of a quote from Senator Harry Reid (Democrat). The paraphrase stated that Reid said that Republicans were on the wrong side of the health care bill, just like they were on the issue of slavery. Then the conservative issuing the paraphrase went on to say that Reid is an idiot because he does not seem to know that Republicans fought slavery and Democrats supported it.

Let’s look at the actual quote to see if the paraphrasing accurately reflects Reid’s comments:

"Instead of joining us on the right side of history, all Republicans have come up with is this slow down, stop everything, let's start over. You think you've heard these same excuses before, you're right. When this country belatedly recognized the wrongs of slavery, there were those who dug in their heels and said, slow down, it's too early. Let's wait. Things aren't bad enough. When women spoke up for the right to speak up, they wanted to vote, some insisted slow down, there will be a better day to do that. The day isn't quite right. When this body was on the verge of guaranteeing equal civil rights to everyone, regardless of the color of their skin, some senators resorted to the same filibuster threats that we hear today. . . . History is repeating itself before our eyes. There are now those who don't think it is the right time to reform health care. If not now, when, madam president? But the reality for many that feel that way, it will never, never be a good time to reform health care."

In the actual quote Reid says that Republicans want to slow down change, and then he goes into the history lesson, stating that historically people have resisted change on issues like slavery and women’s suffrage. In the history lesson he refers to people who “dug in their heels and said , slow down, its too early.” He does not identify them as Republicans. Then he goes back to the modern day for analysis when he states, “History is repeating itself” because once again senators are resorting to filibuster threats and other means to slow down change, specifically the health care bill.

So what do we learn? Well, the conservative who issued the paraphrasing took some liberties in order to create a straw man he could knock down. Reid never said Republicans opposed all those things, just that there has always been people who opposed change, and he is right. And though Reid did not say they were Republicans, he would have been partially right to do so because those conservative elements resisting change have flip-flopped between parties depending on which would support their policy of resisting change. Who are these people that have been resisting change since the early nineteenth century? Southerners. They once called themselves Democrats (1820s-1940s), then Republicans (1950s-1960s) , then began switching back and forth depending on which party appealed to their attitude of resisting change (largely voted Democrat in the 1970s, Republican in the 1980s, Democrat in the 1990s, and Republican since 2000). Regardless of party affiliation, it is Southerners who have historically resisted change. That is okay—it is an acceptable and reasonable position—but let’s be sure we know who we are talking about. Not Republicans, not Democrats—just Southerners. They have historically resisted change, and are doing so again as members of the Republican party today.

So was Reid correct? Yes, there is a group who historically resist change and they are now resisting change as members of the Republican party. What did conservative media do with his comments? They misrepresented the quote and then challenged the historical accuracy and Reid’s credibility. The funny thing is that in their efforts to challenge his understanding of history they revealed that they do not actually understand history. So what is the moral of the story? Don’t get your history lessons from Political “news” talk shows and web sites. They don’t know history, but are happy to re-write it to defame their opposition and support their own political ideas.

On a side note, less you think I’m really a liberal because I continue to reveal the blunderings of Fox News and conservative media, let me simply explain that I am not subjected to liberal media like MSNBC so I cannot speak to their false assumptions. I am, however, forced to listen to conservative mistakes all day long.